There are four main lessons to learn to be an effective social justice ally. What are two of them? Group of answer choices Kindness, and, willing to be self-sacrificing (go on hunger strikes if necessary). Learn to sit in the fire, and, become aware and appreciative of all of the statuses you personally occupy. Confidence in your opinion of what is best for an oppressed group, and, learning to sit in the fire. Be kind, and, always stand up for yourself...do not get pushed around by those who believe differently from you.