you have identified a change in condition and determined that your patient is in acute reapiratory distress. you alert the patients mother who is home at thr time that you are calling 911. the patients mother responds that she will contact the payients physician asking that you do not call 911. the patiente mother states, “I really do not want to go to the hospital; the wait times are to long, and they are never fully prepared to take care of my son”. What should you do first?