On asking Paul to describe how he thinks he is being perceived by others. He said "Shy, timid, lonely, isolated, invisible, quiet, reticent, unfriendly, tense, risk-averse, resistant to change, reluctant, restricted, hysterical, and inhibited." That's quite a list, Peter commented, now how do you view yourself ? The same, he answered, ….."but it doesn't give them the right to ridicule or torment him just because he is different."