Answer :
Understanding others is very important to building new relationships. If you do not know why a person acts the way they do or even why you react the way you do, then there is little common ground to building a new relationship. Along this line at some point, you have to use acceptance of who another person is and who you believe you are if both of you are to learn how to build a relationship.
Love is the basis for forming relationships, and using others, not hate, destroys
them. Love can take many different forms, not just between the sexes.
Friendship and patriotism are others. How can you tell the difference between
love and using others? Love is concerned mostly with others; using others
is concerned with nothing but self.