Sam is upset because his father won't let him go outside and play in the rain. Sam's father reacts to this by sitting with Sam and saying " I know you really want to play in the rain right now, and it's making you angry that I am saying no. But I am your dad, and it's my job to keep you safe and healthy, so I can't let you get wet in this cold weather. Let's think of another activity to do." This is an example of which of the five elements of fostering security during infancy and toddlerhood